MEN FAKE ORGASMS TOO!

You would really be surprise how many women do not believe a man can and do fake an orgasm. Let's keep it real ladies this happens everyday! You know I had to share this one also and ladies please be on the lookout for this type of guy! LOL

For a lot of women, this is the big news from a study published in the November edition of the Journal of Sex Research.  The study, conducted by University of Kansas psychologists, studied the sexual behaviors of 200 college students.

The University of Kansas Study found that 25 percent of men and 50 percent of women faked orgasms during sexual activity.  Sexual activity includes a wide range of actions such as mutual masturbation, oral sex and penile-vaginal intercourse.

Which sex act elicited the highest percentage of faked orgasms?

Among those who faked orgasms, 86 percent of men did so during penile-vaginal intercourse and that same stat was 82 percent for women.  The study found that big-O fakers were more sexually experienced and more likely to have had orgasms in previous encounters.

How do guys fake it?

Most women think a man’s orgasm is synonymous with a man ejaculating and that’s not entirely true. One, it is possible for a man to have an orgasm and not ejaculate. Tantric sex anyone? Two, if loverboy is wearing a condom and the lights are low, a woman might not really know whether he ejaculated or not.   Just like a women, a few well-placed oohs and aahs could suffice.  Plus, many men “fake” orgasms, by just lying by omission or commission and leading the women to believe they had ejaculated.

Why do men fake it?

Men fake orgasms for the same reasons women fake orgasms. Half of the men in the study who faked orgasms said they did so to avoid hurting their partners’ feelings.  Also, men felt the orgasm was taking too long or they were ready for the sex to end, so they faked it.

What do male friends of Madame Noire say about this?

I’ve only done that twice in my life. One time, I had too much to drink and I just didn’t have the energy to get to that second or third orgasm for myself. By then, the woman had multiple orgasms though.  I told her that I had gotten off again when I had not. I wanted to sleep. The other time, it just wouldn’t happen for some reason. I was still at attention and she had already had an orgasm, but I couldn’t get myself there. I just told her I finished, because I could feel that she’d gone dry.  It wasn’t fun for either one of us anymore at that point.

Only once did I fake an orgasm, but I didn’t really fake anything. I didn’t do any type of theatrical performance with it.  I just told her that I finished when I really didn’t. We’d been going for a while, but I couldn’t get to the point of ejaculation. It was the first (and turned out to be only) time with that woman and I didn’t want to deal with it.

Damon, 28
Chicago, Illinois

I faked it before because I just wanted it to be over. I wasn’t into it at all. I made a couple noises, did a little shake and that was it. She probably didn’t know I was faking it.

Brian, 30
San Diego, California

This study was conducted with college students. Do you think older men 25 years old and up would fake orgasms more or less than these early 20-somethings? Ladies, have you ever suspected a man was faking? Gentleman who have faked it, why did you do it?